house cleaning

i guess i'm not really cleaning, just adding some links (check 'em out) to the sidebar and looking for an excuse to get something off my chest. here goes...

speaking of cleaning house, i just found out that a friend of mine has decided to leave his wife. after she caught him sleeping with someone else.

fuck that. you wanna leave your wife to play the field? fair enough. but at least be man enough to admit it beforehand instead of going behind her back. at least respect her enough to talk with her instead of just...well, instead of being an ass.

i'm hoping that i'm jumping to conclusions and that, once i hear your side of things, i can look you in the eye. for now, though, you've lost my respect, my admiration, and my friendship.

what a hell of a way to start a tuesday...as if the bulging disc in my back weren't enough, now i'm going to feel sick all day. this is really like a bad dream. maybe i'll wake up soon and find that all that's wrong is that i overslept for work due to some awful fucking dream that wouldn't end.